K, so obviously this guys wants me to stay the night at his place and I told him straight up "you know, I'm not down for sex, I'm too young." He basically told me that he doesn't expect sex and understands. He claimed that he just wants to hang out to see me and stuff that we don't even have to sleep in the same bed he would sleep p on the floor and stuff. My girlfriends say go for it but my guy friends are a little more ... they definitely think I shouldn't go. So the question is what are your guys opinions..? am I being naive or my guy friends just a tad over protective ?
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So, I tried to date this girl in high school, after eating lunch I would hold her, lean up against the wall and she would hold me back... when I asked her out she said yes, but before the week was up broke up with me telling me that she only agreed to go out with me because her friends told her to.
Two years go by, she becomes single and is INSTANTLY talking with me on Facebook wanting sex from me. I was not comfortable with this in the least, but I agreed to hang out with her and spend the night and what not to help her not get in such instant crappy relationships with guys that just wanted to f*** and move on... I saw her like, once a week or every other week spending the night at her place for two or three months, she still wanted sex but didn't get a single lick of it from me.
Moral of the story, some guys can behave VERY well. but remember, this is just some guys, not all.
P.S. We slept in the same bed cuddling every night that I spent over there.2