I am completely serious, a girl I know who I had thought was stable, started crying yesterday while we were at a club. Another gets really angry every so often at small things that I have nothing to do with and takes it out on me. Do not get me started on past girlfriends. I want to know why and when girls get upset as to learn when to to run away to avoid stabation?
~Please do not give out to me if this is offensive, I am serious :)
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girls are permitted to act on every little emotion; while men generally act on very few. it does not mean we do not have the same feelings--its just women tend to act on them more often than men do. example: a girl may go to a club and suddenly realize that no one has asked her to dance or bought her a drink, while all of her gfs are having a blast. she gets stressed and socially anxious and begins to sob.
a guy out w/friends finds he's in the same situation, girls turn him down but his friends are making bank with chicks. he gets stressed and socially anxious. He stands around and waits till its time to go home or leaves early. girl & guy have only two options: stay or go. girls sobs from the sad emotions. guy thinks, wow I'm sad, I feel awkward, but I'm not going to burst into tears at this club w/all of my friends around when all I have to do is stand here and wait till its over or leave.
on a social level the sobbing girl gains affirmation from her friends. on that same level, the guy would lose affirmation if he did the same thing--so he gets affirmation from doing the complete opposite.0