I met a guy online on plenty of fish we talked for like 4 days and he made me feel good about myself promised he wouldn't hurt me he lives 2 and a half hours away by the way and said he is real keeps it 100% and I said I do too. So last night I told him I couldn't trust him till we became official he flips out! said well no wonder dudes ditch you they don't want to put up with your bullsh*t deuces am I wrong for not trusting him yet noo I'm not I don't know why he can't understand that! how is that bullsh*t.
Same sh*t different guy they always say they will treat me right and one more thing he said he wouldn't text me or call me if anything went sour and I believe it. Why did he flip out? why do guys alwayyyys treat me so bad!? Its depressing everybody is getting with somebody except me nobody really wants me for me! sometimes I don't want to live no more & go through this pain. They all say the same thing if you can't let your guard down we can't be together well I'm not just gonna trust you if were NOT together either... fair game right?
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First of all, this guy is an ass. What you asked for is normal; he was obviously trolling that website just looking to get laid, and lots of guys do. To help filter them out, you might either want to add to your profile, or tell the guys you meet online VERY early on, that you don't have sex outside of relationships. That may prevent a lot of the guys from contacting you, because a lot of them only want sex, but the guys that remain will likely be guys who want a relationship.
The other thing is that trying to meet a guy who lives 2.5 hours away from you is a huge mistake; you'll almost never see him because he lives so far away. You certainly wouldn't be able to have the close, constant time with him that I'm sure you'd want, so you are setting yourself up for disappointment, loneliness, and neediness from the very beginning. Don't do that to yourself, or to a guy.
Find someone LOCAL to you, 30 minutes away at most, so that you'll actually be able to spend time together.0
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