Boiled down version:
Girl meets guy. Guy doesn't have chance to get girl's phone number at initial meeting (literally a 'hi' and 'bye' conversation). Guy adds girl on Facebook. Messages are exchanged periodically. Guy attempts to get mutual friend to set up another meeting so he can finally have an opportunity to ask girl for her phone number in person, because girl is hesitant about these things and needs an actual real face-to-face conversation first before feeling comfortable giving out said number. Mutual friend is flaky and girl and guy have not met up since initial encounter, one month later. Guy is wrapped around girl's finger and obviously interested. Girl is unsure about how physically attracted to guy she is and feels guilty because she's potentially been stringing him along unintentionally for several weeks. Girl just wanted to give guy a chance, one date to see where things went, but because girl refused to agree to a date before even exchanging numbers, which she refused without a face-to-face conversation, she's now stuck one month in and unsure of how best to proceed.
Bottom line: This girl enjoys the conversation between her and this guy, but is starting to feel really afraid that she's losing an easy way out of this situation...she still wants to give the guy a chance, but in the meantime, his feelings are growing and hers are just becoming more unsure...
TELL GIRL WHAT TO DO, PLEASE
Do I keep pursuing this or what?
Most Helpful Guy
Some advice: why not set something up where the both of you can meet in a social atmosphere like a party or at a bar. Somewhere that both your friends will be around/be with you?
You could always try out one date before your write this off. I personally don't like meeting people on FB and then going straight to a date either, but if I was interested and the person seemed like someone interesting id give it a shot.0