i been dating a married man for 5 years, every time I try to leave him alone I can't he has no intentions of leaving his wife obviously at this point we have got to deep in our relationship I have feelings for him should I tell him?
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I really don't think you should tell him. What good would it do? He is not going to leave his wife, and do you really want him to? Could you put yourself in her shoes and say that him leaving her for another woman would be what she would want? If he did leave her for you do you think he would then be faithful to you even though he wasn't faithful before?
These situations are so sad. Honestly they break my heart. You've got yourself in deep and everybody gets hurt. I am not saying he is innocent and it is all your fault because I am sure it is not, it takes two to tango. Regardless you really need to get some separation and terminate this however you can so that you can move on with your life and hopefully not do any more damage than has to be done.
I ask by way of general question, not accusation, why do some women get mixed up with married men? I mean, you know from the beginning that it can't end well and no matter what somebody, and sometimes everybody, gets really hurt.3