Or vice versa. If you are adamant that you don't want kids and your partner really wants kids, could you be together or compromise without resenting the other person?
Do you want kids? How would you handle the situation?
Would you separate despite the fact you guys love each other?
- I want kids and my partner has to want themVote A
- I don't want kids and my partner has to feel the sameVote B
- I can have kids or not have them and be satisfied either wayVote C
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, it will be a deal breaker. As much as I love him and if he truly wants kids.. It's over. He can find another woman share the same value as him.
I don't want kids, I don't like the thought of raising one.. - I would gladly babysit them and be able to send them home. *I have no desire to be a parent.
Even if everything in my life is in place.. Definitely no kids..
There's no compromising when it comes down to it.
I'm going for a long term relationship.. He has to not want kids NOW and not want to have them THEN either..1