I was 31 last week and have only ever had one boyfriend. I am smart, attractive, well traveled & have everything going for me. I honestly don't understand why I can't find a man.
Men are attracted to me, but it seems to just be sex. A guy will be happy to come home with me week after week but won't ask me on a date. I don't always do that, I have tried not giving them what they want but I still don't get a date.
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I have the same problem. When I was in my early 30s and actually got asked out I unfortunately gave "it" up too soon and of course they took off not long afterward. So, I learned not to have sex quickly, but now I don't get asked out at all. The whole "smart" thing I think is really intimidating to the majority of men out there. Plus, adding independent to the mix (which it sounds like you are) also makes them feel like they're not needed. So many have a "I wanna save the damsel in distress" mentality because solve problems is the only thing they know how to do. But I imagine there's gotta be a guy out there somewhere who is secure enough in himself that intelligence doesn't send him running, and also doesn't have a desire to save someone.0
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