ALL of the girls I've been interested in I always treated them like gold. I pay for our dates, I hold the doors open, I talk a lot to keep a convo, etc. Just because of all this, I seem like the "easy to get" guy and they lose interest after the first date.
This makes me mad because I figure the saying "nice guys finish last" is a bit true. So I figure I need to learn how to be a gentleman "with a bite".
Guys can you help me out?
Most Helpful Guy
Dont worry , you are still learning to be a MAN.
Dont do things to impress her , do it because you WANT to.
If in your heart you DONT want to do something but do it anyways just make her happy
you are selling your self short.
Respect her but let her know you can be without her. "Nice guys" get ditches because they are too available and NEEDY! Make time for the things you USED to do before you met her.
Her is the TRICK though , when she sees you are standing your ground she will pull the you don't love me as much card. Don't fall for it , be dominant and do your thing.
Remember be CONFIDENT and LOVE her , DONT cheat on her but talk to other girls friendly not flirty 0 this will let her know you are a cool guy that girls will want even if she left you.
Women - God's best creation - you can't fully understand them but their blueprints are easy to read. Ps: If you are 22 and under - DONT sell your soul.
LOOL don't listen to me though ...just a random dude in a 1+ year relationship2