Thinking about her after all this time...a disadvantage right?

If you've been thinking about someone who you weren't even officially with for years and then you see her again and she probably hasn't thought of you...that puts you at a disadvantage right, if you want to get with her? I mean, it's like you have more invested in her than she does in you.


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  • If you have more invested in it than her, yes -- as in she isn't putting in any effort. However if you mean you want to try date her and she's just being her and isn't actually avoiding the effort as such, then there's hope and it's not a disadvantage.


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