I went to a concert with this girl I knew in High school that kept up with me on Facebook. We went out as friends to see this band that we really love and saw each other for the first time in 3 or 4 years. Anyway, this girl can is comfortable talking about anything but we kept the talk to fun until the car ride home, which turned kinda to our beliefs and thoughts on life and the universe, deep serious stuff. We really click, I mean I have never known anyone who has understood me, and projected similar frequencies back to me in the way she has, I mean it just clicked, like even better than my best friend and I do.
Anyway were almost home and she starts talking about her boyfriend and how she thinks it won't last much longer, and how a message she had sent a while back asking if all guys were a**hole and couldn't change was actually her venting anger from a fight with him that day (which really cleared things up). Anyway, she told me her boyfriend has anger issues and flipped the mattress several times before, and how he was concerned about me and her going to that concert that night.
Ladies, would you ever share something like that with someone? And if so, why?
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If I really trusted the person I might confide in them about my problems. But I don't think I'd be so detailed (not saying she was, but just in general) about the problems or things that are between me and the current boyfriend.
If I was that unhappy with whatever situation(s) going on I would leave him. Maybe she's looking for advice or confirmation that it would be better to leave him. Or feeling you out to see if you were open to more if the current relationship doesn't work out.
Or maybe she was just venting to a friend... its hard to say, I don't know her.1