I've been thinking of Guy1 (who is my age) as my potential boyfriend for a while. We both gave the impression that we liked each other pretty early. We hung out almost every day, had our first kiss, and things were just going great - until he went on vacation, and I started talking with Guy2 (who is a year younger than me). I had never met him, we just became friends on Facebook through my best friend. After a while he asked me if I had someone in my life right now, and I told him I did. He seemed to become upset. And I gave him all rights to be. I guess I gave him the wrong signs, cause we were basically flirting through texts for awhile. A few days later he Skyped me, and he told me all these really sweet things Guy1 never ever had said to me. I told him I thought he was the sweetest guy ever - just like the ones in the movies, and he told me I was like the girl in his dreams. I was so happy, and couldn't stop smiling. He said he wanted to show me he loved me, and that I deserved a kiss. But only if I would allow him to. And I said I would. He asked me if I wanted to meet up with him for the first time. I was really excited, and said yes. I came to his house the day after, and we sat down to watch some TV. We sat close and he started playing with my fingers, holding around me, letting me lay in his lap etc. At one point he was just staring at me, and I turned to look at him, and he kissed me. We kissed more, and we made out. I haven't told Guy1 anything yet. What do I do? I really don't want to hurt any of them, though I know I will... I feel so stupid for letting them on.
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My mother used to have this "fruit analogy" for marriage. She always advised me with it. She said "Son, you can't decide which fruit you like the most without trying all of them."
Following what she had said, I would say that breaking up with Guy1 is a good idea, because you have tried him, and he tasted good, but Guy2 seems to taste better.
What's important here is your happiness. You can't be in a relationship just to make the guy happy. Therefore, I repeat, I think you should break up with Guy1.
The only alternative is to break up with Guy2 and stick to the original fruit, but I don't see how that would make any sense.2