Girls doing the chasing?

Guys, I know this sounds patriarchal... but have you ever felt hassled or harassed when a girl took it into her own hands to do the chasing? I've faced some such situations, and somehow it makes me feel as if something's wrong. Maybe it's generations of training, but I just feel it's more natural for the guy to do the chasing. (Of course it's flattered to feel wanted, but then it doesn't feel right somehow. Any comments?)


Most Helpful Girl

  • Neither should be chasing, both people should act interested and do their fair share of initiating things. Imo if you feel like there's chasing going on, either the one doing the chasing is desperate or the one doing the running is playing games, or both...


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  • Some girls know what they want...go after it,and don't have time for BS! Enjoy it.