I like to know what I'm getting into, especially when it comes to something like a serious relationship. Instead of jumping in and dating someone before I even know them, I want to become friends first and get to know them as a person. I want to know what they're like.
So my questions are:
1) Does anyone else feel this way?
2) How do you let them know if and when you want to take things to the next level?
Most Helpful Guy
1) Not at the minute, but I have done
2) Don't be friends with her. If you're her friend, you've got about as much chance of getting with her as one of her girl friends or brothers.
My advice would be not to look for a serious relationship, bite the bullet and go on a few dates and get to know each other that way. If you're both right for a serious relationship with each other, it'll work itself out.0