so I'm staying in this hotel down the country for a break! and last night we were in the bar and the bar man was looking at me and then he came over to take our glasses and he kinda talked to me, then he did like an over exagerated laugh :P I thought he was really cute! and then I went up to get a drink and he made it his problem to serve me! anyway today we went down and then I had to go back to the room to get my glasses, and when I was waiting for the lift he walked by and he looked at me, and then he walked on and he looked back :D then tonight he was looking at me again like all night! and I got drinks again and he did the same thing!
my question is why didn't he make a move or talk to me or anything? and if its cause he didn't like me why was he always looking at me?
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i can relate to your situation :p. Yah its all about the job, you have to be the one to make a move on him.
I mean the reason why he didn't make a move was because he was afraid of the thought of you thinking he is a waiter. If he had asked you out, he was afraid that you would say something bad about his job.
I do customer service, so I see and meet a thousand people a day, and I've met with beautiful women. I always experience that lingerie look they give you :D, it makes feel sexy but at the same time I'm kind of insecure that she might think I got a low paying job, which is untrue for my case. :P
Tell you what, before you leave, go see that man again. Give him a hand shake with a great smile, and if your confident enough, tell him what you think about him, either way you are going home.1