We text all day. We meet up for lunch almost everyday from our respective jobs. He makes time to see me. When he was out of town, he Skyped me. He tells me of things he wants to do with me in the future like taking trips, etc.. He talks about me to his friends. I've met his friends and family. OK, I'll stop there.
What I'm trying to say is, he gives me reasons to believe he really likes me, but he doesn't want to commit to a relationship with me and I think he is hooking up with another girl.
I don't know what to do.
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This is odd behavior. Typically its girls who do this stuff.
Most guys don't see the value in a close relationship with a female unless he had intentions of dating her or having sex with her. Normally I would say this guy likes you because most guys never do this stuff unless they really like the girl. However the fact that he said he doesn't want a relationship and is hooking up with another girl speaks otherwise.
Still though, its not out of the question. You guys aren't official so its not against the rules for him to be hooking up with another girl. I don't exactly go way out of my way to get with other girls if I already have a crush, but many people do. I also wouldn't turn down an easy opportunity if it was there, especially if my crush wasn't there seeing it happen.
As far as his commitment level, it could mean anything. He may just not be ready for a relationship right now, maybe he wants to date you, but is milking this fling with this other girl and is waiting for that to blow up before he continues further with you, maybe he really just doesn't want to date and sees you as only a friend. It's really tough to say.0
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