I'd like to know from the boys how often you do this (on average) when you're in a relationship with a girl:
1 - texting / calling
2 - cuddling / hugging / kissing
3 - expressing affection or love using words
and when do a girl's expectations / needs become too much to handle and perceive her as clingy?
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1. About as much as she'll give me. I don't go out of my way to do something that she's not willing to reciprocate. A few texts every day or every other day, a few phone calls per week.
2. I'm big on this, so whenever possible.
3. Not big on expressing love via words, as most women do not appreciate when a man says something heartfelt. It is far better to leave some small wonderment in a girl's mind as to how much you really love her so she continues to try to win you over. I can tell her that I appreciate her when she does nice things, but telling a girl you love her is generally a bad idea. As for being too clingy, a girl would have to respect the fact that there are some weeks where we could only get together once a week, or even once every 10 days due to my crazy work schedule. If she couldn't understand that, I'd have to let her go. My work comes first.0