Expected to pay for them on first hangouts?

You met a girl and you get her number, you then both agree on a day to hangout, let's say to the movies.

Are you expected to pay for her on this first hangout? Not a date.

Or do girls consider hangouts a date?

Since it's a hangout and not a date, the way I see it is that I should pay for SOME things (ex. ticket, food) but not everything.

So tell me what you guys thinks.

Girl and guy answers are welcome :)

Oh another thing, would it be any different if it wasn't a one on one hangout?


Have an opinion?

What Girls Said 1

  • You're asking her to the movies so yea in her mind it's a date. And normally most girls expect you to pay tho I always offer to pay for myself or him get the tickets and I get the concession stuff. But if she doesn't offer then she's expecting you to pay.


What Guys Said 1

  • Honestly We shouldn't have to but unfortunately we still do anyways.