I have a habit of exploring all my options. When I'm single I keep a few guys around until I figure out which one I like the best and I'm ready to start being intimate with. Since I can only be intimate with one person and I'd rather focus all my attention to just them its hard to get rid of these other guys who didn't "make the cut". I end up keeping them around stuck in the friend zone but they stil have hopes of things going further. I dont, and I just want to know how can I nicely let a guy know I am no longer interested without breaking their heart.
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I can relate, but pretty much even if I keep a couple of options, I already have foresight of who it is I like the most, and really after this just about all romantic feelings for the others fade away.
I don't like to be lead on and I don't like leading others on, this is always hard.
I'm a coward in this department but I think telling them you're involved with someone else ( if they ask) is the bes.t I think it subconciously let's them know hey, I'm mature enough to tell you, and I think you're mature enough to handle it, kind of a compliment.1