There's one guy in my class. He liked me more than a year, we flirted and all my friends were saying that he DID like me, but he's the type of boy who is used to getting a lot of attention from girls and he never had to put much effort to make a girl like him, but in my case it was different at first I didn't show I liked him and he did have try more than he ever had to, but our friend in common decided to ruin everything and told him I liked him (laughing about this fact). This girl likes him very much as well and after that he never flirted with me and also started being close with that girl. Can anybody tell me what the hell happened to him? I'm confused.
What happened to HIM? Everything seemed to be going so well... PLEASE ANSWER
What Guys Said 2
There's not enough to go on here. More info needed. Too many possibilities. In the end, he may have liked her more or he could have been intimidated by you being hard to get and when he discovered you liked him, he ran.
Many times there is an approach-avoidance factor in relationships -- a guy approaches and when he thinks the girl likes him he's not sure how to behave so he avoids her, only to discover later that he likes her more than he thought and approaches again later and runs away again. this could be happening now though I am speculating.
If you have another friend who knows him prett well, it might be best to ask that friend what they think happened.1
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