So I had this problem where people give me speeches on how I should NOT have a type or prefrence when it comes to dating
Im mainly attracted to white guys. I like the blond (or brown) hair, blue eyed look. I'm attracted to that most of the time. It's not that I refuse to date anyone else. If I met a guy who I'm attracted to with a great personality I would go out with them. I just like lighter features on guys, especially with eye color
Also if a guy is my type, but has a bad personality I would never go out with him...
People (mainly guys) have called me names for this. It's starting to bother me.
1) is it so bad to have a type?
2) why do people care if you have a type?
I just think we can't help who you are attracted to
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No you don't really sound shallow. Your just looking for an attraction what's I think most people do on both sides guys and girls. You just know what you want attraction wise and personality wise it seems, however since you have in narrowed down you'll just have to wait until what your looking for walks into your life. Me personally, I think personality is the most important but I also look for someone I'm attracted to, but I'm attracted to a lot of types of girls but they need to have the personality I'm looking for which is what I seem to be more picky with.0
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