Okay so I'm pretty useless and this whole texting game and its rules, I mean I tend to do my own thing for better or worse. Once I've run out of the normal questions everyone asks I can go really random.
I just met this girl, she's beautiful, been texting her yesterday, I'm assuming I did an adequate job as we texted from morning till well the next morning but asleep breaks these things up so having said goodnight and her to me I'm left in the place where she texted last and hasn't texted me today so I'm guessing its up to me to text her again, or she's hoping I take a hint and don't text her who knows.
So I really don't want to freak her out with my randomness which is more due to me being shyish and not knowing what to say and over thinking and trying to figure out if she's happy or losing interest.
Can people give me some texting hints and tips ? Mainly from you girls as its your opinion that matters seen as this girl is well a girl
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I know this is just going to be confusing but I'm kinda opposite your other answers. Goes to show there are a whole lot of different people. I love the part of starting to date a guy and you're texting each other all the time. He could say pretty much anything and I'm smiling like a loon.
I think if she didn't want to be talking to you she would have given you one word answers or conversation stoppers long before it went all day.
About the randomness, I'd love it. I actually do the same thing and had one of the best convos start with something like "McD's vs BK" and spun out. It shows you want to keep talking to her and it's cute and weird and cute lol.
I agree that you shouldn't go overboard, like if you texted all day one day then wait till the next afternoon and maybe keep it short unless she pushes it and maybe don't go for more than 4 days in a row. Try to read the signs, if she's being short with you one day and maybe not answering then wait a day or two before trying again.
Just keep it fun and flirty and show your interest and be you, don't play games because that just makes things more confusing.2