So this is very new and I never thought I would ever haft to ask this. But I'm confuses I mean I know where I got my mind set on but can't I do it Or at less stick to keeping my word. But This guy and I been on and off for the past few months now, I'm and I dated for about 3-4 months now. And The first time we hook up things was just fine .But you know every relationship has some type of problems. But with us it was just trust, ex 's and sex, and other people involved are relationship. But him and I don't talk the way we use to, and every time I try to explain to him what we can work on and stop the fussing back and froth and teach him about life and things important. But it's like most of times I feel like I'm just talking to myself and has not really taking in anything I say. And another thing is : he says he loves me but serous last time I recall Love is not begin disrespectful and begin rude, then he ask me why I bitch at him I look at it this way it's a win share I mean he don't call me out my name of anything he just feels like anything I say it's bad or just don't listen and have this nasty ass attitude. I mean I can't work backwards with him anymore but I feel like there is still hope but then again.. I don't know what to do because I know he says he has change and willing to do better but that the sad part because things he do he don't find it a problem and it really T's me off that he thinks what he dose is A.O.K. But I say and do leave him alone but why do I answer his phone calls or just call him back few Min's later if I know he just the same person? Someone help?! Thanks :(
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Sounds like my ex. You can't make him change, you can even tell him what's wrong a million times but the fact of the matter is, he won't change unless he see's the problem and wants to fix it. Then again, we shouldn't be with people that we want to change. Shit started for us the first month we were together, that lasted 5 1/2 years. It's not worth it in the long run. My opinion of course though. Look for somebody you don't have to convince to fix the relationship, that's my best advice.0
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