Basic details, been seeing him for a few months although known him for more than a year. We've been on 4 dates, he's taken me out to dinner and recently we went to watch a movie at his place which was a really good night. We haven't yet taken it to the next level physically or made things official.
The problem, he gets high almost everyday, multiple times and it's verging addiction. We've spoken about it and he knows I don't like it as he does it regularly. Yesterday I went to his place and we were going to watch a movie in his room. I could smell the wd and asked if he'd been smoking. He said he had, so I told him I didn't feel comfortable and I was going to leave, He told me to stay a few times, but I had made up my mind and then he got really mad and started saying I had wasted his time and he was never going to change for me, which I never asked him to nor would I ever expect him to but simply was being honest about my perspective and told him that he could do whatever he wanted just not with me there.
Things got pretty heated and I left, he basically kept repeating that I had wasted his time over and over which was hurtful. He also said he was never going to speak to me again.
Today he text me with an apology and said he wants to make it up to me and that he didn't mean what he said.
I'm confused because I like the person he is when he's not high, he's sweet, caring and funny but fear that he's got an addiction considering he does it multiple times most days, I haven't replied and don't know if I should. Should I hear him out or walk away?
Most Helpful Girl
Walk away. As someone who has dated a pot addict before, the problem only gets worse, not better. It will interfere with every part of your relationship since he does it every day. The way he's acting right now? This is the BEST it will ever be. He will only become more dismissive of your feelings of it in the future. All activities together, or before/after you're together, will involve weed to some degree.1