So there's a bit of a back story, but I'll try to keep it short. Girlfriend goes away on a month long class trip, everyone get drunk at night, some guy makes a move on her (kisses her). She's too drunk to react properly (allegedly), tells me about it when she get back. I get pissed, but we work through it (we've been together for a year at this point). The guy that made a move on her is obviously interested in her, I tell her I feel uncomfortable with her talking to this guy and hanging out with him (I didn't flat out say she couldn't talk or hangout with this guy). So she texts him and hangs out with him once, I express my disdain in her doing this. The Girlfriend says o.k., that's fine, she won't talk to him anymore . Turn's out she goes behind my back and texts/Facebook messages him, but she lies to my face telling me that she has not been talking to him. All her lies are exposed when she tries to lie to me about not talking to him again, and I prove that she has. I say its alright and forgive her because I love her and nobody's perfect.
TL;DR Girlfriend lies about not talking to and hanging out with a guy that clearly is interested in her. I forgive her and let her off the hook.
Should I have not forgiven her so easily? Was I too lenient?
- Was I too lenientVote A
- What I did was fineVote B