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Breaking one's own reality, in this case their own self perception, is extremely difficult and not for the weak of mind. It requires the ability to not only perceive yourself from an outside and impartial perspective (which is already difficult because you have to be able to do this from WITHIN your own mind), but also the ability to admit that you are imperfect/wrong/flawed. People don't like accepting truths.
It's kind of like a "red pill," "blue pill" thing. It's much easier to take the blue pill and stay in your fantasy.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE