So this girl and I met online. Things seemed to be going well. We were texting each other a few times a day. She'd initiate almost as often as I would. We went out once and I went over there once. Everything seemed great then she started this new job that put huge demands on her time. I texted her the first night to ask how it went and she didn't respond til 9pm saying she was just leaving and she was tired(I do believe her, I know several people who have the same kind of job) After that I didn't hear from her all week. I messaged her Friday to ask how it was going and she responded quickly and enthusiastically telling me it was hard work but that she was loving it. I asked her what her weekend looked like and she said mostly going over her work.I told her she could text me if she was bored or wanted to hang out. So far nothing. I know that after this next week things will settle down for her and she'll have more free time than she's had. Should I text her or give her some more time to like see if she misses me?
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as hard as it might be to do, I think you should let her make the next move. Clearly you have been giving alll the go lights and letting her know you are interested in her and you have already told her you were free to hang out with or text. Give her about a week or so to settle into her job and then, if she doesn't respond back in that time, then I would text her ONE more time, if she doesn't respond, then hang it up.0