I've made out with a guy friend (let's call him A) a couple of times, but we've never really discussed what happened and even though his best friend seems to think he has a thing for me, I'm not convinced. I'd like to have a conversation with A to figure out what's going on between us, whether we're just two friends having fun or there's something more there, but I don't know how to broach the topic with him. How can I let him know that I want to talk about this without scaring him off?
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just ask casually. between girls and guys guys do better with direct communication, giving him a whole big introduction will be more likely to scare him off.
just ask him "what's our deal, are we just friends fooling around or is there something more here?" be prepared and be prepared to tell him how you really feel, even if you are not on the same page.
because it really hurts to go on and on not knowing where the other person's heart lies, and eventually you will find out, and the longer you wait to know the more it will hurt if you are not on the same page. I'm going through that myself now.
it's scary to talk about these things but better sooner than later.1