I am in love with two guys. Both who I can have a good future with. One is my boyfriend that I have been dating for a year now, the other is someone I have been friends with for almost four years and I've loved him for 3. I just recently found out that my friend loves me too but would never get in the way of me and my boyfriend. I talked everything over with him. He doesn't want to be the reason I break up with my boyfriend, he wants me to see where we go. I am afraid of things getting so serious with my boyfriend that if I still want to be with this other guy, I wouldn't be able to break it off with my boyfriend because I love him and I can't do that. My boyfriend does not know how I feel about my friend. I am too afraid to tell him because if I do, I think he will break up with me...and then if I go with my friend and it doesn't work out, I have lost any chance with my boyfriend forever. ...i am very close with my boyfriend's family as well...i would lose a lot one way or the other...
Please help me...i have no idea what I should do...! :(
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Honestly, I'd say just stay with your current boyfriend because it seems like the easiest choice. I mean, your other friend even said that you shouldn't break up. If you and your current boyfriend have already been dating for a year, that shows that you and him are already having a successful relationship and you don't even know how a relationship with your other friend will be like.
Basically, you should stay with your boyfriend because it seems like it's the best choice. 1) You stay friends with the other guy, 2) If you DO break up, and it's not your fault, you could have a chance with the other friend still. 3) If you break up with your boyfriend now, it'll probably cause some awkwardness and tension to build up between the two of you.
In the end, it's still up to YOU to decide. If you REALLY like your other friend, go for it. But if you're split down the middle, stick with your current boyfriend. Good luck.0