Both are between the ages of 18 and 22.
Guy is quite ambitious, attends trade school, still lives with parents, no car, no job.
Girl is ambitious, has a job, looks all independent, probably lives by her self already, possibly has her own car already.
Would the girl give the guy the time of day, even after learning all this after getting to know the guy after a few of dates?
- Would find someone betterVote A
- He seems like a nice guy, I'd give him a chanceVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, because she knows that eventually he will be in the same boat has her.
Just because she gained those things quicker doesn't mean she will be more successful.
"The race is not for the fastest, it is for the swiftest."
She genuinely likes him, if she is continuing to see him.
Don't worry about any of this.
Also, its very common that men in that age group aren't very well accomplished just yet. So it isn't a turn off or anything.
What is a turn on is the fact that you are trying to do something with your life.1