I am crazy in lust with a guy that works at my local coffee shop. I try to go there once a week (not TOO often!). I am sure he recognizes me. Today he said goodbye to me when I left, though may very well have been a friendly thing & nothing more. I am ultra shy and don't know how to make him notice me, or what to do about it. Help please!
What are your thoughts on contacting him via social medial? A pm on Facebook? Is that too terrible for words?
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It's his job to "be nice". Be careful here. However if you really want to try to get this guy, find a way for him to give you his number (or you, his). Just go up to him when he's free and start talking about something dealing with the shop orrr the weather or something that's not too confrontational and is subtle enough so that it's fairly quick. Talk to him for about 10 minutes or until he says he needs to get back then just hope that he gives you his number, or say "hey, this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe"1