Met this girl online...she lives a couple hours away. We went out twice. Then told me she didn't think we should date anymore, do to distance, and other reasons. Later she texts me..saying how she would really like to hang out as friends sometime. Tells me how awesome I am..blah blah. Anyway, a month goes by...and she messages me again asking how I'm doing..and that she was serious about hanging out as friends sometime. I'm guessing she just wants a good guy friend. Just would like everyone's two cents. Personally if I had met someone I wasn't interested in...I wouldn't go out of my way to work on a friendship, especially with someone 200 miles away. We both met on a dating site, and we both agreed that we were there looking for a mate...not a friend.
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Personally, I wouldn't be that bothered about being 'friends' with someone I wasn't interested in! I think maybe she does like you but wants to get to know you better as 'friends' and maybe that's why she's keen to hang out! And also maybe due to the distance she's a bit wary of falling for you and then getting hurt!1