my girlfriend just told me this, kind of. she didn't say it definitely, but she has said that she's started to find her religion again, and is going to church a lot more now. She asked me how I would feel about it. I was honest, I said I'd still love her and I don't want to force anything she isn't comfortable with, but at the same time, I don't feel that way and about sex and Id want to keep doing it.
how would you react if that happened to you?
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It would be a relationship ender for me cause I don't ever want to get married.
In your case I think you need to first assess if you're willing to wait, and for how long. If you are happy with your girlfriend, your relationship, and think there is potential for marriage down the road then maybe the benefits out weigh the costs. However if you don't think that no sex is going to work for you for however long you think you'll be waiting, then you need to talk with your girlfriend. Ultimately communication between you two for what BOTH of you want is what will determine if this will work. Before you have the sit down on this make sure you know where you stand with your needs and what you're willing to compromise on.0