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Obviously she should just marry her boyfriend now and live miserably till she dies. Right?
If not he should break up and he sooner the better.
Ask her if she doesn't think her boyfriend deserves to be with someone who loves him? Every day he's with her he's missing chances to find someone else. She's wasting his life, not just her own. And she's not doing it to be nice to him. She's just too much of a coward to have the difficult talk. Pretending it's guilt and 'not wanting to hurt him' makes it seem okay. Call her out in it. She's actually screwing him (and herself) over our of fear. Time to be a big girl and do the right thing.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE