We used to hang out a lot and a couple months ago I asked this girl out, a couple times. Eventually she said she really like me as a friend. That was OK, I didn't think too much of that. But we stopped seeing each other for a while.
Yesterday I invited her to be a background actor with me on this movie set that needed a lot of Asians. She really wanted and even considered using her vacation days to go but decided not to go because it required 13 hour commitment. But she suggested we should hang out next time.
I asked her when is she free. She replied... "How about early sept?"
Im a busy guy but don't have much schedules so I'm essentially flexible busy. But man! 3 weeks away, closer to a month. And I didn't even ask her to do anything yet. That's apparently her availability. Could girls really be that busy? What is she doing with all that time? We live in a small city, life doesn't move that fast. I might see that in a business career woman in NYC, but then again. I have never experienced that level of busy before. Help me understand?
She is an alpha female in her circle. Very cute and outgoing. Works in a 9-5 job. Dances on the side. I don't know if that helps.
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Its more likely that she's blowing you off. If she is impressed with you...and she's smart, then she wouldn't risk losing you to someone else with in the next month. Plus you said she's outgoing...which usually means these type of people go after what they want. Do not make excuses for her.2