I met this girl on a social site over the summer and I really like her but not exactly to the point of love since we barely know each other. Plus we live almost 2 hours away from each other. Anyway, as time went on I ended up adding her on Facebook and decided to talk to her since I didn't want to miss the opportunity like I had with other girls. We've had really good conversations but she always took so long to respond and when I open the pop chat it says she read the messages almost every time. And every now and then I would write two extra messages just to get a response and most of the time just wait until hours or even days later for a response. So one day I told her as a gentleman that it was nice getting to know her at the time and hoped things go well with her and she finally saw and apologized and explained about how guys would message her (she's very beautiful of course) and say immature things and that she still wanted to talk which to me which was cool. But still, she took a long time to respond and very few times have we had a complete conversation over 25-30 minutes online. And recently about a week or two ago I saw on her status that said she was in a relationship which really got to me but I got over it in a short amount of time and decided to keep talking to her as a friend and my feelings are even stronger for her in a good way. I just don't know what it is about her that made me feel different than I had ever felt about anyone in my life. But still I don't know if she really is interested or what? And this one time it sounded like to her I wanted to stop talking to her and move on but actually I was saying I couldn't wait to get to know her even more. Which got me thinking as well about her reaction. All I know is that I don't wanna be trapped in some kind of friend zone or anything. And never even brought up the word friend to her but instead as "people" getting to know each other. Much help on this is very appreciated if you can help me figure out what all of this means.
Girl takes too long to respond and don't know if she's very interested?
What Girls Said 3
She's not interested. And since she's in a relationship, I'd advice you to move on..
i am sure she is talking to billion other guys! but if you want you can ask her straight up;)0
What Guys Said 1
Wow dude! Your story is nearly exactly like what I've been going thru. I too met this girl online..she lives 2 hrs away etc etc. We went out twice...in my mind everything was going well. Then out of the blue she told me she was wanting to move closer to family (5 states away)..and didn't act like she wanted to continue dating. The next day I stupidly text her saying how Awesome I thought she was..and told her good luck..etc etc. She told me how great I was and said good luck too...and also said several times that If I found myself in the neighborhood, to give her a call. Fast forward 2 mos. She sends me a message saying she's not moving after all, and that she was serious about wanting to meet and hang out in the future. In the message she said hang out "as friends". I too am meeting and dating other girls...but none have compared to her. I've been told by people close to her that she wants to be friends with a guy before starting to get in a serious relationship...so I'm trying to figure out if she wants to slow down and become friends with me first...or if she meant friends forever. I would love to be her friend at the very least...but its hard when we're 2 hrs away.0
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