I've been seeing two guys that I really like at the same time. I'm not officially going out with them, I'm just seeing and going on dates with both of them. I've been through some pretty bad jerks and have been played a lot like most people go through at a point in their life. So this time I'm stuck seeing two guys who are worth my time actually. I'm suppose to go on a date with the one guy today and I'm suppose to go on another date with the other guy tomorrow. The second guy that's coming tomorrow says he wants to be in a relationship with me but hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. The first guy told me I better not being talking to any other guy and that he wants to be in a serious relationship soon. So I'm all confused and I don't want to say goodbye to one of them and then find out it doesn't work with the other one. What should I do? Is seeing two guys at the same time wrong?
Seeing two guys at once-is this wrong?
What Guys Said 3
You are free to date as many guys as you want! And just like you said, either they will want to get in a relationship or they won't. Just don't lie, if they ask if you are seeing other people, you should say yes.0
Is seeing two guys at once wrong? I don't think it's that wrong... but some guys wouldn't like that, I wouldn't.0
What Girls Said 2
If both guys want to commit, you have to choose one. If you don't choose you'll either be in two dishonest relationships or you'll lose both of them. Don't worry about choosing one and then not having it work out. You can't really perceive how the relationships going to go so you just have to go with your gut.0
i was in exactly the same position here too, but i started to sort of compare the two and see the differences between them. Having some time alone to think has helped me to decide which guy i actually prefer a LOT more and have chosen one over the other. its been a lot easier than seeing the two and i can relax and enjoy myself more with one now, id deffo recommend it0
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