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You deserve it. You allowed it to happen trying to play as if you were not interested and even had your friends play stupid. You knew that you were both going to be at the same bar, your greeted him and saw that he was happy to see you, yet you barely spoke to him, walked away without inviring him to join you. After a cold reception like that I would have done the same thing, what did you expect him to do, cry in his milk? To be sad that you were basically telling him that you were not interested and giving him more or less a cold shoulder.
What is that old saying, you reap what you sow? Yeah kind of fits here.
Hopefully you learned your lesson.
Yes playing hard to get can make someone try harder, but it can also make them feel as though you are either not interested or that they have no chance.
Live and learn I guess.
(Honestly, I have been in the same position as you put him in except it was a party on campus and she was talking to her male friend (they were in the same college together) and after her not comming out to talk to me or anything else for over two hours knowing that I knew no one but her and that I traveled a ways to see her, I said she isn't interested, got REALLY drunk fast and started making out and groping another female that was dancing with me that turned out to be one of her dorm/condo mates. God I still think about her and how bad I screwed up. She was one of the few that I would have married at the drop of a hat.)
IT happens, forgive and forget or move on...it is all that you can do.
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