I called a girl to ask her out at like 16:30. Couldn't reach her. I then proceeded to ask her out for lunch (nothing formal) via text at like 17:00 (couldn't call her again because I was in a library). At like 17:30, she called me at home but I wasn't there.
She didn't respond to my text the whole evening/night.
But at midnight, she suddenly responded and said "sure, if we exchange the lunch for a coffee tomorrow before noon"
I haven't responded yet. Because seriously, no matter how busy you are, not writing back for like 7h is extremely rude in my eyes.
So what do you guys think?
a. tell her I don't have time b4 noon (which wouldn't be a complete lie)
b. ignore her and wait if she asks again/asks for a specific time/place
c. tell her a clear time/place to meet up
If I'm pursuing a relationship with her and don't want her to walk over me/disrespect me^^
I didn't text her back at all after that BS.
She texted me AGAIN the next day at like 11 am., this time with a clear time/place.
I told her a different time and we met up there.
That way, I could "keep my face" and "repay" her for not texting earlier but still see her.
Just have to make sure to avoid the friend zone.
And btw: she has a bf...
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maybe she was having sex with another guy for 7 hours !1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE