My friend is on a dating site and she has been talking to a guy, however she says he told her he doesn't have any friends. He only talk to guys at work but they don't meet outside of work. Plus he lived in a different state for years and decided to move back to his home town and he has no friends that he calls or who calls him. I am wary of this and things she should step back from talking to him. It seems odd to me that someone doesn't even has one friend (not even one). What do you think
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Honestly, most likely I wouldn't. That to me would indicate some things about his personality.
- he's not social. That's not good for me because I'm very social and enjoy really social events and outings when dating
- there are things about him that people don't like.
Now, on some occasions there are some really awesome people who feel like they have no friends, but there are people who want to be their friends. There are people out there who enjoy their company. Yet they are simply more introverted and they just don't have a strong desire to go out there and make a lot of friends and take basic connectons further.
So it all depends, but generally if him having no friends was because people don't want to be friends with him; I'd view it as a red flag and be turned off.