I have been dating this girl for over 3 months now, and it has been going amazing. She just started school now again though, and she has found a new best friend. This friend is like taking over my spot. She wants to hang with her friend, way more than hang with me. I asked her tonight if she wanted to go get ice cream for a study break and she said no. But at 10 oclock she told me on Skype that she's going over to her friend's for a few hours. So she had the time, but has chosen to give her friend the time, not me. I also said can I have a day of the week, that is mine and she said no because she might have homework. I also said it would be nice if I could see her once every three or four days, and she said I was pushing my luck. Her friend gets to see her every day. I don't understand, because all the time she says she misses seeing me everyday like it was in the summer.
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I hope her new friend is a female. Your girlfriend may not be taking you seriously. (thus taking you for granted) Sounds like you are not her priority. I understand she just started college, meaning busy stressful, hecktic life etc, however she has to learn to balance her time between school, personal, & social. I can't believe she said you can't have one day a wk for one on one time & that your pushing your luck, sound like she pushing hers. She ditched you & yummy ice cream to spend time with another chick please. What are they doing I dnt care if she is a new or old friend, she can't sideline you. Well whenever you can catch her talk to her about this. If she really cares & loves you she will make some improvements because she will know you are worth it. If not you will have to drop her. I wish you well0