Ive been dating this guy in navy for about a month but there are some stuff I don't think we are compatible in and my mother says he doesn't appreciate me and he is just using me how do I know what his intentions are ? Or if he is right for me without having to ask him because he might lie
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Actions speak louder than words. A guy can say some of the nicest things ever, but if his actions say otherwise then you have problem.
Another thing to look at is when you talk about him to your friends, what things do you omit? Do you find yourself making excuses for things that he does like when he lets you down, doesn't contact you, etc? Its what you don't say that says the most about your relationship.
If other people are saying that he doesn't have your best interest at heart, and its more than one person, then you may want to listen up. Especially your mother. If your mother is usually right (even if you don't want to admit it) then you may want to listen.0