He asked me out (he is 11yrs younger). It took a while for me to finally agree (he is attractive). We have gone out three times. The last time we went out he told me about a girl who is coming from another country to spend three weeks with him. They met while he was traveling and he has pictures of them all over his Facebook. She is his age and very pretty and I know they like each other a lot. I felt annoyed that he is taking me out and then tells me this. He says he had this planned with her before he and I went out. He says he didn't realize he would like me the way he does and that I should be patient because she will be gone in three weeks and that is it. He says they can't have anything because she lives too far away. I don't know what to do. I feel like we just got going and this is going to ruin the beginning of what could be something good. At the same time, he is much younger than me and I wonder if he just wants sex. He is divorced and is looking to meet someone new for a serious relationship, but he has already tried to sleep with me (we haven't yet but have an over night date planned this weekend at the coast.. right before she gets here). How should I handle this?
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He's wants to sleep with you this weekend, then he's likely going to sleep with her for a couple of weeks, and then he'll want to sleep with you again. If he sleeps with the both of you within a very short time frame(especially since he told you about her), then he'll always link the two of you together. Don't have sex with him this weekend if you want something serious with him, take it from a guy with worldly experiences.0