Ok, so me and this girl have been texting quite a bit in the last 4 days now and it's been pretty flirty. I'm trying to get her out on a date, and she sorta agreed to this Sunday. I ended out texting convo earlier this night just by not responding to one of her texts(nothing really to respond to). I feel like just calling it quits for the night, but my friend tells me I should text her "I can't quit thinking about your smile " right now. We just started talking this Sunday, and we've only met once. Isn't that too soon to send a compliment text like that? Would it have a greater change to do more harm than good?
Another thing to note is that she has started about 8 conversations with me, and I haven't even started one even though we've sent well over 300 total texts...
It was too upfront. Every one of you said it was a good idea, but it appears to have backfired pretty hard :(
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You're over-analyzing this. It's OK, because we all do. Sometimes if you just say something that's randomly flirty or talks about how you can't stop thinking about her "whatever" it may send the wrong message (pardon the pun) and can be a turn off.
You said she sorta agreed to a date. What's up with that?
Do you think that she may feel the same towards you?
I'd say pace yourself and don't put too much out on the table if you're unsure. If you put a whole feast on the table and she's only looking for an appetizer, that can make things awkward.