I met this girl a few months back and we instantly got along really well and we have a lot in common. It's almost insane how much we're alike. I started to like her and I was certain she liked me.
At one point I found out she liked this other guy since before we even met. I had asked her out for a real date but it never happened.
Now, over a month ago she basically pushed me away for a second time. I basically told her goodbye this time with a: It was nice to know you, until someday.
I almost got over her and guess who came back. I used to be the one initiating things and now she starts to talk to me out of the blue and inviting me to things.
I'm a bit like WTF is going on. I still like her and I'm thinking of giving it another try but I don't know if I should try to remain friends or if she wants more now?
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I completely agree with darknoisette. Sometimes when you're preoccupied with someone else you don't really give anyone else a chance, even if that someone else is a great guy and the one you're focused on is a loser. She could have realized this and saw it was going nowhere with this other guy and wants to give you a shot. Or she could just miss your friendship (though I doubt that). Keep your cool and hang out with her if you want, but like darknoisette said, don't jump whole-heartedly into it. Be cautious and see where things go.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE