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Traditionally in most cultures that's how it is, and before that, how it is in the animal kingdom especially among mammals.
Thanks partially to PC and hanging threat of harrassment lawsuits, as well as media bashing of masculinity, men today are more reluctant to pursue a woman they are interested in. This has compelled some women out of frustration to decide to go after the guy themselves. Old school teaches that if a man is pursued, he loses interest, feels put off, feels unmanly, yadda yadda yadda. My take is if a man turns down a woman he thinks is very attractive, very cool, solely on the basis that his animal instincts weren't in play, he's not worthy of having her.
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