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Since I'd have to be considering him being my boyfriend in the future if I said yes to the date, then I'd like that a lot. Saves all the guess work!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Since I'd have to be considering him being my boyfriend in the future if I said yes to the date, then I'd like that a lot. Saves all the guess work!
He could mention it, but not like: just to let you know, I'm looking for a girlfriend.
That would seem to me like he would keep on dating someone, if they're good for him or not, just because he wants a gf.
I'd be more like: "ah, I'm kinde done with the random flings, when I start something, I want it to be good, nothing random, just a good relationship with a nice girlfriend."
If a guy would say that to me on a date, I'd totally agree! (except girlfriend would be bf)
Absolutely, as long as he doesn't seem desperate about it. Some guys make it seem that they're desperate for a girlfriend and will date any attractive girl that says yes. If he's merely looking for something more serious with the right person, it's a plus.
It really depends on the vibe I get from the guy...for example, I went on a first date with a guy who, ten minutes after meeting me, told me he loved me. He did not get a second date because I was too busy running for the hills.
If the date is going well and we have a lot in common, no, that would not freak me out.
I think if a guy is clear about his intentions, that is extremely hot and very respectable. You may want to say it in a non-creepy way like "I'm at a point in my life now where I'm really not interested in serial dating. I want to find a genuine connection with one person" instead of "Im looking for a girlfriend" kind of sounds desperate...
Yes! If I did not want a relationship with the guy, I would not date him at all. To me, a first date is to see if the two of us would be compatible enough to be in a relationship.. so, yes, I would love to know if he's serious about something good.
If he means it ya, I would like it. I would probably ask anyways. I would also agree with tadpole, his version sounds nicer
well I wouldn't be freaked out. If he just said that to me out of the blue on the date I would just say isn't that why we are on this date haha!
maybe on the third date or something.. first date would freak me out and I'd think it was moving too fast tbh
I honestly would like if a Guy said what they were looking for right of the bat that way I would not get crushed if I found out later and was in love with him.
nope that wouldn't freak me out cause that's the usual thing that happens.. well in my culture :)
Whatever his intentions are, even if he just wants to see where things lead, like if he is honest. It's so much easier to make decisions about him if I know what he is expecting from me even if it is nothing.
I'd prefer to here him say that he's looking for a commitment
I usually ask if theyre the type of person who wants to be in a relationship or if they just date around, it saves me a lot of time
Don't get a girlfriend just to have one, do it because you like her.
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