So I've been talking to this girl for a little over a month. We hang out irregularly. I think like 3 or 4 times only. I try to get her to go out on dates with me but she always says she's busy. All week she will say how it would be nice to get together over the weekend then when the weekend comes she has made plans with her friends. She's very flirty when we see each other around campus so she's always confusing me. Like this last weekend I asked her if she just wanted to chill no date no public stuff no party just chill and watch netflix. she said that it was a great idea then when I call her and ask when I should bring the popcorn over she says she's out to dinner and a movie with her friends. She does this quite often and is always telling me she's too busy to hang out one on 1. What gives?
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you're her puppy. that's what you are. a puppy.
she doesn't take you seriously. you're just a go to guy when she's bored.
and of course she flirts. of course you need to throw a bone here and there to your dog.
here's what you should do to "double check" the situation; call her up and ask her to go on a date with you. if she says no, she's history. delete her number and move on. if she says yes and then cancels the date, she's history. but if she says yes and actually goes on a date with you then you maybe have something going on.
*spoiler* she won't go out with you.1
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