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He was being realistic, which is good, but he wasn't handling it in a way that was sensitive to your feelings, which is bad.
LDRs don't work, and given that you can't be together, you shouldn't pretend that either of you owes each other anything. You are both single and free to date as you like. And if you are both single 9 months from now, and want to date each other, then have at it.
You want to have your cake and eat it too, and you can't. I realize that hurts your feelings, but that isn't his fault. He should have just found a kinder way to talk about it with you.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE