I know this isn't exactly the right thing to do.. But lately my boyfriend has been acting weird.. Like.. He refuses to sleep with his phone on the table, it has to be under his pillow.. He turns away when he gets a text.. He leaves the room when he gets a call.. I had my head on his shoulder one day when he got a text, he accused me of trying to snoop.. I got upset and asked who it was. He said it was John, his boss. I noticed that he deleted messages and went to John's messages. I found out it was his ex. Tonight he was acting really strange. After he fell asleep I decided to look at his phone. I guess he forgot that I can see his recent contacts.. I looked and saw that he'd been texting his ex, and 2 other people, and that he had been deleting those messages. It isn't bad that he talks to his ex, but she still likes him and he knows it. What is going on? I am super confused right now..
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sounds like he's being an a**hole. Its unfair for him to hide things like that from you and bottom line is that he has lied to you, yes it was wrong to look at his phone but I'm guessing you wouldn't have done it if he hadn't have made you so paranoid =/ you two are in a relationship you and him. not him and his ex, from what I know ex's cannot be friends. I've tried before and it did not work out well.
Tell him you need to talk to him, explain that you aren't going to let him mess you around and that he should not be texting an ex or hiding any messages from you. If the texts really are nothing then he would have had nothing to hide =/
how would he like if it was the other way around? and you were hiding things from him?