I was just wondering why some guys go from dating a really nice looking girl to one who isn't as good looking and is a lot bigger? Is it possible that it could be just cause the other bigger girl is willing to have sex just confused here thanks!
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That's one possible reason, yes. Some guys think "if she's not as attractive physically, she's probably willing to make up for it in other ways." And they are often right.
But it might simply be that this girl has a great personality and is very compatible with him, and he doesn't really care that her appearance isn't quite as ideal as maybe the last girl was. Guys are attracted to a large variety of looks and body types, but really, far more than women believe, it's the personality that matters in a relationship.
Most guys care MORE about looks if it's just sex. They won't have to deal with her personality much, so they don't care if she's a nasty bitch, as long as she's hot. But for a relationship, most guys realize that personality is crucial, and so they are less focused on looks and more on getting a good personality match. Most guys, anyway.0